Quest for Natural Father.

Today, I read in one of the Sunday mags about a lady who "found" her natural mother. Her mother lives in the USA. Lucky lady, she has met her mother. I am pleased for her.
My father lived there too. I am going to ask now, if anyone who may read this Blog, lives in Pleasanton, California? I must tell you, my natural father DID not live there. Not to my knowledge anyway. Not far away though from what I can work out. Reading this lady's story has fired me up again. I want to talk to my half brother. I need answers. Suppose I will never get them though.

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It's a wet Saturday night, it is 10pm in England. If I have converted it right, it is 2pm in California. Good time to ring my father's step-daughter isn't it?
How dare she presume that she has more right to the man than I do??? She had her share when she was younger, she knew my father. He liked her and she liked him. That's good. I have no problem with that. But if he was good to her, couldn't she be like him and show a little charity?

I get so angry at times, I only want a bit of him. Just a few of their memories. Not a lot to ask is it?

I am still in the part where I think I don't blame them for not getting back in touch.
My sister and I and other friends I have told, well we think that if the boot was on the other foot, we would be thrilled. We all agree that we would give the person a chance.
Never mind dear lady in California, you are safe, I ain't gonna ring.
Rot yer socks flower!

Got to the grand old age of 62 today. That means, I have outlived my mother and fathers'. Didn't think I would. My "real" father died of a heart attack, in his 50's I think, so did my dad, he was about my age though. Mum died about 48 years old.

Very strange to think you are older than your parents when you last spoke to them.
I know I have never spoken and never will, to "real" father. Quite sad really. I do wish my half-brother would ring me. As the old saying goes, "If wishes were horses, beggars would ride." I won't ride, just walk.
Take care, from Anne.